Baring My Gut… Literally

September 3rd, 2011 | Shonali Burke | 79 Comments

no secret scienceFunny how things can change in the blink of an eye, isn’t it?

Here I was, thinking I’d have a nice little break, catch up on blog reading & commenting, cooking, and so on. As a matter of fact, I thought I’d be spending Saturday heading to my local farmer’s market with a friend, and then getting a blissful acupuncture treatment.

Instead, I’m actually going in for emergency surgery (1 pm ET)… which I found out yesterday. So there goes my weekend.

What’s the surgery for? I’ll tell you, but before you read any further, please know that if you’re uncomfortable reading about “female issues,” you should stop right now.

Feeling great, then not-so-great

Many years ago, I was diagnosed with endometriosis. Two procedures later, it’s still wreaking havoc on my body; so much so that on Thursday evening (ironically the day I shared how one month of #mybootcamp has gone), I was doubled over in pain as the irregular bleeding I’ve been dealing with for years was just … weird. And I have a pretty high threshold for pain.

Having seen how horrendous the E.R. can be, I opted not to go in. Rather, I called my OB/GYN practice, got some medication advice (they didn’t think I needed to go into the E.R. at that point either), and went in to see my doc yesterday. An ultrasound followed, which revealed that there is a large mass on one of my ovaries, and which needs to be removed.

And it needs to be removed now, because it’s so large that it might pull the ovary over, making the latter twist back on itself, thus cutting off its blood supply. In which case, the ovarian tissue would die and possibly poison me to death. I believe the medical term for this is ovarian torsion. Oh, and the ovary may need to be removed as well, depending on what condition it’s in.

So the surgery (which will be done as a laparotomy) is today. I’ve been told I’ll have to stay in the hospital for at least two days, maybe more. And recovery is apparently four to six weeks.

You know what my first thought was, when I was told? “Dang, I won’t be able to do my bootcamp for a while!”

I don’t know when I’ll be back online “properly.” Until I am, there won’t be any new posts here on WUL. I’m hoping this won’t be for more than a week… but honestly can’t say at this point. But we will be back… so please don’t give up on us!

And another thing

I’d complained about the symptoms of endometriosis for years, and no one paid attention.

It was only after I learned to be a little more aggressive, and started complaining louder, that it was finally diagnosed. I’ve seen this happen far too often with other diseases and people, especially women.

So if you know in your gut that something is wrong, please don’t stop talking about it. Talk louder, and louder, until someone pays attention.

So that’s what’s happening with me today. If you can spare a kind thought or prayer (if you pray) for me and my family today, I would be so grateful. Good vibes never hurt anyone, did they?

Wherever you are, whatever you’re doing, be safe and healthy, my friends. And to those in the U.S. – happy Labor Day weekend!

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johanetsebeth 6 pts

Praying for a speedy recovery and healing. :)

Shonali 1123 pts moderator

johanetsebeth I'm doing so much better now - thank you very much!

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Soulati | B2B Social Media Marketing 659 pts

Dang, lady...so sorry to be out of touch and just learning of this today as I saw your tweets this morning. I see you're back up and at 'em albeit gingerly. Take good care to recup all the time your body tells you...no way you need to relapse. Do you think the bootcamp brought this all on??? Heh. <3U

Shonali 1123 pts moderator

Soulati | PR LOL. No, definitely not the bootcamp's fault! Wasn't it cool to G+ Hangout yesterday?

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dc2fla 11 pts

Shonali,

Here's to a quick return to 100% healthy - and no more surprises. You're an inspiration to so many of us. So back on your feet fast!

Shonali 1123 pts moderator

dc2fla Thank you so much, belatedly - and see you soon!

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ExpatDoctorMom 111 pts

Shonali I was saddened to hear this. When they were in there, they probably laser ablated (hopefully they did) your lesions and you will get relief that is longer lasting. As long as you use some controlling meds

I have endometriosis as well. Sounds like not to the extent you do. Have had laparoscopy twice. One thing that helped believe it or not was relaxation breathing. I was doing it for other reasons. Learned it during a 12 week mind body course. Happy to teach it to you via skype (20 minutes is all it takes).

Hope your recovery is going smooth! Hang in there! I know when you are recovered you will be back full steam!

Cheers,Rajka

Shonali 1123 pts moderator

ExpatDoctorMom I'd love to learn your relaxation breathing technique. I used to do yoga and have been thinking of possibly starting that again. Thank you so much, belatedly, Rajka!

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ExpatDoctorMom 111 pts

My skype name is drrajka email me(drrajka@expatdoctormom.com) if you want me to do go over the breathing. You could record on Skype and then use it again! Also, I can insert positive messages. Just did this for a friend who is trying to get pregnant. Shonali

Shonali 1123 pts moderator

ExpatDoctorMom Oh, thank you! I'll add you on Skype so that we can do that. And it will be so fun to actually see and talk to each other!

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ExpatDoctorMom 111 pts

Great! Look forward to it! Shonali

KDillabough 913 pts

Just dropping by to say: I hope you are feeling better and better, each and every day:) Cheers! Kaarina

Shonali 1123 pts moderator

KDillabough You're the best!

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Shanan 37 pts

Sending love and e-hugs. Hopefully today is a better day for you. :)

Shonali 1123 pts moderator

Shanan Thank you - so much better now!

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TheJackB 1244 pts

Back to say that I hope that you are feeling better.

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3HatsComm 755 pts

Sorry to read that you're not feeling well. I wish you a speedy recovery, and if it'll help, I'm ready to send as many snarky 'get well' Someecards as necessary. Take care.. and take it easy.

rachaelseda 234 pts

3HatsComm I love someecards! But don't make her laugh she might bust a stitch! ;)

Shonali 1123 pts moderator

rachaelseda3HatsComm I can laugh now!

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elizabethsosnow 12 pts

Shonali, just want to let you know that I hope the procedure went well. Take good care of yourself - you'll be missed...but don't rush back until you feel better. We'll still be here :)

Shonali 1123 pts moderator

elizabethsosnow Very belated thanks. It did go well and I'm feeling so much better - all your comments/notes made a huge difference!

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HowieSPM 1915 pts

OMG shame on me for getting here late. Hope you are in full recovery and everything went well. Much blessings and wishes for you!

Shonali 1123 pts moderator

HowieSPM Very belated thanks!

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rachaelseda 234 pts

Thinking of you Shonali! I know many friends that have this same condition and your advice is great. You know your body better than anyone else, even a doctor with years of training. I hope everything goes well and I am glad you caught this when you did. Let me know if you need anything at all of course!

Shonali 1123 pts moderator

rachaelseda You, probably more than most, had to put up with my "sick" moaning and groaning. Thank you so much, my dear!

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HeatherWhaling 34 pts

Yikes, Shonali! I hope you start feeling better soon. Sending good thoughts -- and a virtual hug -- your way. Take care of yourself!!

Shonali 1123 pts moderator

HeatherWhaling Thank you so much, albeit belatedly!

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Susie Caragol 6 pts

Egads, woman. Phil and I are hoping for a full and speedy recovery!

Susie Caragol

Shonali 1123 pts moderator

Susie Caragol Thank you!

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Marcus_Sheridan 578 pts

Shonali, so sorry to hear about this and I know someone like you, who can't sit still, is probably going crazy in the hospital as I write this. But I hope very much that your recovery is as quick and painless as possible.

You're in all our thoughts...

Best,

Marcus

Shonali 1123 pts moderator

Marcus_Sheridan Very belated thanks, Marcus! I think the first 2-3 weeks I was still so tired, I couldn't think of anything but sleeping & watching bad TV. When I started to go stir crazy, I knew I was getting better. Ha!

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bdorman264 1746 pts

Saw your tweet updates..........of course..........hope you are resting comfortably.

TheJackB 1244 pts

I wanted to check back in again to see if there was an update. Take care of yourself- no rush to get back here. We'll be ready when you are.

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Shonali 1123 pts moderator

TheJackB You're terrific - thank you!

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adamtoporek 400 pts

Wishing you all the best for a speedy recovery Shonali. Our thoughts are with you.

Do take care of yourself. The WUL community is not going anywhere.

Shonali 1123 pts moderator

adamtoporek You're awesome. See you soon!

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New England Multimedia 90 pts

Praying for you, Shonali! I'm so glad you chose to go to the doctor rather than suffer through it, after suffering for so many years. This is such a powerful message for all of us, to be proactive about our health, pay attention to our bodies, and don't just shrug things off. Thank-you for sharing this with us!!

Shonali 1123 pts moderator

NEMultimedia Thank YOU!

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abarcelos 21 pts

Hi Shonali:

Positive, healthy vibes your way as you recover. I'm so glad you took care of this before it caused permanent damage. Take it easy, rest and know that everyone can wait for the next event or blog post. Without your health, nothing really matters.

Shonali 1123 pts moderator

abarcelos So true - we have nothing without our health. Thank you so much; even though I couldn't respond before this, your note made a huge difference!

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mdbarber 137 pts

Hoping things went well and you're already beginning that recovery period. Sending you prayers, hugs and strength. Also to John, who's likely going through nearly as much as you are.

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Shonali 1123 pts moderator

mdbarber John has been a BRICK. Thank you again for everything!

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AmritPa1 13 pts

We are all waiting here. Take care and be back soon, in all your health.

Shonali 1123 pts moderator

AmritPa1 Thanks, my friend! Now that I'm back, I'll be looking for your next submission... :p

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NancyD68 661 pts

It has all been said already. Feel better. We are all pulling for you.

Shonali 1123 pts moderator

NancyD68 Thank you!

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AliahPR 7 pts

I am thinking of you Shonali. It is good that you listened to your body! I hope your surgery and recovery goes well and remember in no time, you will be back to your bootcampin' ways!

Shonali 1123 pts moderator

AliahPR Doing very well now, knock on wood (5.5 weeks post-surgery). Thank you so much!

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EricaAllison 1114 pts

You know you are in my thoughts and prayers, Shonali. By now, you've had the surgery and hopefully resting. As everyone else has said, we're your community and we have indeed "got your back." As I've said before, do not hesitate to ask...I will do it.

All my best for a speedy, restful recovery. We'll all be right here waiting on you when you return.

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Shonali 1123 pts moderator

EricaAllison You have been incredible. Thank you so much, belatedly!

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